The New Normal After the COVID-19 Pandemic
People in all age groups experience loss in different ways. In fact, there are no right or wrong ways to process your experience. If you or your loved ones are experiencing any of these symptoms or difficulties, together we can find ways to get you out of these situations and feelings.
Feeling sad, stressed out, depressed, and/or anxious
Having thoughts of suicide
Becoming withdrawn and stressed
Feeling overwhelmed and fatigued
Avoiding hygiene measures (showering, combing hair, brushing teeth)
Experiencing sleeplessness or having nightmares or anxiety-inducing dreams
Consuming more alcohol and drugs
Lacking focus and motivation
Engaging more frequently with technology
“We humans are resilient. We can learn to thrive in our new normal if we have the mindset and the resources we need to adapt.” —Lisa Betz
Seek the Help You Need
Everyone, including you, deserves to be heard and receive support. But it often takes tremendous courage to make changes. Finding a therapist at this time can feel like a job, especially if you have never been in therapy before or wonder whether Telehealth or in-person is better or safer for you and your family. Think of this as an opportunity to step out of your comfort zone and help yourself find hope in this uncertain time. It’s a time to build on or even discover your strengths. Finding the right therapist is a process, just like therapy itself. The right chemistry is key. Keep in mind that if things don’t feel right to you, you are not stuck. Look further. Allow yourself to be open and vulnerable and let the therapist help and guide you.
What we can do together:
Provide a safe place to talk about the feelings you are experiencing— worry, sadness, anger, helplessness, etc.
Help identify your thought and behavior patterns that might not be serving you well
Increase your ability to tolerate and live with ambiguous loss
Help you to develop self-compassion and rediscover your strengths and resilience
Learn to develop new, healthy coping skills
Find hope and new meaning in life again
Free Resources:
Instructions for the Adult Social-Distancing Survival Jar
Social-Distancing Survival Worksheet for Seniors
Cheat Sheet Quarantine Worksheet
Instructions for the Mom Social-Distancing Survival Jar
Instructions for the Young Adult & Teen Social-Distancing Survival Jar
Guideline for Parents to Help Children and Teens foster Self-Compassion